My forthcoming book, Our Way to Fight, explores the dangerous lives of non-violent activists working for peace, justice, and human rights on both sides of the wall in Israel-Palestine.
The book will be released in January 2011 by Pluto Press (international) and Between the Lines (Canada), and in May 2011 by Chicago Review Press/Lawrence Hill Books (US).
Writing Our Way to Fight is my way to fight. So is this blog. Through it I’ll share experiences, impressions, and thoughts connected to the book, also updates on people and organizations featured in it. I’ll post as circumstances warrant and allow.
Soon I’ll add links to sites that I find especially valuable.
Comments are welcome from people seeking a just peace in Palestine-Israel. A few ground-rules, borrowed from more experienced bloggers: no racist or sexist comments, no profanity or personal attacks, no misrepresentations of who you are, and no trolling. Other than that, let’s talk.
But first, impressions:
Ofra suggests a smart café with an outdoor terrace in Kyriat Motzkin. After a broiling day, the Mediterranean air feels soft and light. Kyriat is Hebrew for town, though this one has blurred into a string of suburbs on the wide bay curving north from Haifa.
My supper companions are an Israeli friend travelling with me to the Galilee, a former student of hers named Ofra, and Ofra’s son Uri, who at twenty-one has just completed his compulsory three years of military service. He’s taller than his mother, but somehow less substantial. In a t-shirt, shorts and flip-flops he looks twelve, though big for his age. She looks to be in her forties, with black hair pulled back, and dark eyes sparking out of a round face.
The menu here is familiar from similar places in North America, the salads, pastas, burgers, even the carrot cake. The clientele is also familiar – young, casually stylish, tanned, sunglasses topping artfully chaotic hair.
A security guard hovers near the entrance, with a black and yellow baton. I assume it’s a weapon, but when he skims it over flower boxes lining the fence, I recognize an electronic frisking device. He’s looking for bombs.
Ofra wants my friend to help Uri get into Hebrew University in Jerusalem. My friend protests that she doesn’t have that kind of power, it will all come down to his marks. Ofra counters, “You have more power than I do.” Perhaps embarassed by this bargaining over his head, Uri turns his attention to the street.
His father disappeared a few years ago, my friend told me earlier. Despite Ofra’s hard-earned degree in sociology, she can only find work as a secretary in a local law office, from which she supports the two of them. With her son, said my friend, Ofra is as fiercely protective as a mother lion. During the 2006 Israeli invasion of Lebanon, when Hezbollah rockets hit the Haifa region, people were urged to evacuate, and most did. Ofra refused. What if my son came home on leave, she argued, and no one was here to greet him?
While the women chat in Hebrew, Uri and I manage in English. “Where will you go next?” he asks.
“To the West Bank,” I reply.
He looks surprised, or suspicious. “Why do you go there?”
“Why not?” I reply carefully, wondering if this could get awkward.
“Things are very bad there,” he says.
“In what way?” I’m not so much naïve as careful.
He pauses, then shrugs. “And after that?”
“After Israel I’m going to Turkey, for a holiday.”
Uri brightens. “Turkey! I’ve been there, it’s fantastic! I want to go back. The bars are great.”
I smile. “I think that would mean more at your age than it does at mine.” I’ve heard often here that after their military service, many young Israeli men go to India to find or lose themselves, and for the cheap drugs. ‘Scratched,’ these young men are called in Israel, damaged. At least Turkey is closer.
A little silence, we watch the traffic. A surprising number of bulky SUVs – I had hoped people here would be more sensible.
My friend told me that when the army assigned Uri to an office job, he was embarassed, even ashamed. The Israeli warrior ethos does not embrace desk jobs. I ask cautiously if he’s glad to be done with his military service. He hesitates. Then he says, his face still turned away, “If they took people at twenty-one instead of eighteen, maybe I wouldn’t have gone. This is why they take you at eighteen, before you can think about things for yourself.”
Alert to any threat, the mother lion pounces. “He was actually preparing to re-enlist,” says Ofra. Uri rolls his eyes, shakes his head, but she will not be silenced. “I told him if he tried, I would go personally to the military and I would break some furniture, so they would think I was crazy and they would be afraid to accept him in case he was too.” The image so tickles me I’m tempted to laugh, but no one else shows a trace of smile.
Ofra holds my eyes, doesn’t blink. “Of course the people who run this country will do what they want, they always do. But they will not have my son. They will not.”
Then our salads arrive.